Good people make good things happen.
And in this case, incredibly brave and good things.
The NASCAR community spends this time of year celebrating the end of a season, crowning new champions, and unwinding for the “offseason.”
In recent years, we have added to the celebration with The NASCAR Foundation’s Betty Jane France Humanitarian Award presented by Nationwide, toasting deserving finalists and an annual winner. It is truly something I appreciate and look forward to each year. NASCAR is so much more than about what happens on the track, and this is the perfect reminder as we head into the holiday season.
This year, I enjoyed close personal proximity to one of the award’s finalists.
In March of 2012, I read about the remarkable story of hero mom Stephanie Decker, who saved her children Dominic and Reese, from a tornado that ultimately took both of her legs — one above the knee and one below. Like so many around the world, I was incredibly moved by her story.
Shortly after learning of Stephanie’s accident, I was compelled to write to her a letter, reflecting on her bravery and dedication as a mom. I also extended an invitation to a NASCAR race. The problem was, I didn’t know where to send the letter. I saw that her husband, Joe, was a baseball coach at a local high school in Indiana, so I sent it to the high school but really didn’t expect to hear from her.
And I didn’t — until January 2013, less than a year after the accident.
Out of the blue, I received an e-mail from Stephanie apologizing for not getting back to me sooner. She explained that she was getting back to a “new normal” and that bringing her family to a race would be a real treat, so we went to work on getting her to be a part of the Mother’s Day race at Darlington Raceway.
Her entire family made the trip to Darlington that May. It was a big deal for them — Stephanie expressed that they were still seeking good experiences to help forget the bad. It was an even bigger honor for the racing community to host them.
Stephanie made her way around the Darlington grounds both on prosthetics and in a wheelchair — big gains for sure and bigger yet to come. She smiled the entire time.
Stephanie gave the command to start engines with the drivers’ mothers, and together we raised awareness for her newly formed charity organization, The Stephanie Decker Foundation, rooted in providing leading-edge prosthetics for kids.

At the end of the weekend, I told her about the Betty Jane France Humanitarian Award. She applied for the award that year, but wasn’t selected as a finalist. While we’ve stayed in touch and hosted her family for another race, I didn’t know she was still pursuing the award.
Fast forward to July of this year.
She called me and said, “Can you believe it?” I said “believe what?” She thought for sure I knew she had been selected as a Betty Jane France Humanitarian Award finalist and that I might have had something to do with it. Truth is that I had no idea — it was all her doing.
Stephanie and her family showed up in Las Vegas for Champions Week in early December — no wheelchair necessary — and ready to take part in the festivities. My wife, Holly, and I so enjoyed the time catching up with the Decker family.

Finalist Stephanie Decker and Betty Jane France pose for pictures before the NASCAR Sprint Cup Awards earlier this month in Las Vegas.
The outcome of the contest was not what she had hoped — she didn’t win — but the Stephanie Decker Foundation is growing stronger by the day thanks to her unwavering commitment and the support of her husband, Joe.
So don’t hesitate to tell a stranger that you think they’ve done something special. As a result, I’m proud to count Stephanie and her family as dear friends of ours. And I’m also proud to call her a role model.
Good people make good things happen.
Jim Cassidy is Senior Vice President of Racing Operations at NASCAR.

Jim Cassidy and the Decker family, reunited in Las Vegas during Champion’s Week.